What's Next
Introduction
Ever since my father stood me on tables when I was 4 years old so I could entertain anyone in the room, I have loved having an audience. I admit it. So I love that my blog post led me to do four radio talk shows last month on what I think a woman of strength and leadership should look like. Great fun. I just finished two weeks teaching leadership classes in Panama. Next week I deliver a keynote to a leadership group in a Federal Reserve Bank, and then visit coaching clients in North Carolina. Then finally I am home for a week before getting on a plane to Chile to be with another group of emerging leaders.
The best part...I really feel that now is the best time for my message to be heard. It's time to discover what is next for ourselves as leaders and as people who care about the crisis and transformation going on in our world. Bono said, "In darkness, the light of possibility can shine brighter." What is possible for you?
So my brain tip may be more of my opinion than other tips. Yet now is the time for all of our voices to be heard. Hope you are standing on tables and speaking out as well.
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Brain Tip #74: A Crisis is a Terrible Thing to Waste
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I have been in Panama for the past two weeks. It is strange watching what is going on the U.S. and the world so far away from my home. It’s not that I’m concerned about losing my assets. At times like this, I most miss hugs with my love ones and huddles with my friends.
I recently heard a minister on the radio talking about the state of the world. He said we were not just facing a financial crisis; we are also facing a spiritual crisis. Somehow the values of freedom and democracy had been blown out of proportion, overshadowing our values of community and the common good. Individualism bred selfishness and short-termism, leaving us drowning in a sea of greed.
So how does the brain play into this? If humans are basically social animals, wouldn’t most of us put “good before greed?”
Unfortunately, before the social brain is activated, all perception travels first through the primitive brain. We react to threat and reward. We must first protect ourselves, our livelihood and our families (reflected in the panic on Wall Street). And when we feel safe, we seek what makes us feel good.
THE SITUATION: When money became the major form of wealth for everyone, it served to divide instead of connect us. When we elevated individual gain and free markets to a higher moral status than community responsibility, we branded ourselves as “rugged individualists” and played into a philosophy that states, “The driving force of business is to make as much money as possible for the owners/shareholders.” This is the credo for most of our corporations. It is what suffocates the spirit and drains the creativity of our workers. And I believe it is the reason Wall Street is crashing. At the core of our economic crisis is a spiritual crisis that began at least one hundred years ago.
I am not a socialist. I am a person who deeply loves the country that took in my grandparents as immigrants and provided them the opportunities to start and grow a business and a family. Yet when I watch people screaming at Senator McCain for not crushing "the morons" (democrats) and both parties hating and distrusting the other, I’m saddened by what we have become. This is way too tribal and primal for the most progressive country in the world (or so I thought). I am missing my hugs even more.
So now, in addition to the pollution, hazardous waste and global climate change problems, we have burdened future generations with our financial sins (and bailouts and rescue plans). As taxpayers and workers, what can we do? Where do we go from here?
THE TRUTH: Gerald M. Weinberg said, “Crisis indicates the end of an illusion.” We are now seeing the illusions behind our money, the free market place, and rugged individualism.
THE POSSIBILITY: Instead of fear and depression, maybe we should feel hope for the return of community, public service and good intent. Maybe we can begin to see love and peace as the real wealth of nations, and that we can be educated, healthy citizens that live comfortably in productive eco-systems on our planet. Is this an illusion too? I hope not.
BRAIN TIP: Fortunately, a crisis is a terrible thing to waste! Our brains love status quo so much, that it generally takes a crisis to make the changes we sensed we needed to make long ago (Gary Hamel said, "A turnaround is a transformation past due."). Crisis can drive the emergence of new ideas, structures and ways of being with each other. Yet we are the ones that must create this; we shouldn’t be waiting for our governments to mold our world.
As humans, we have the ability to vision our future. We can quiet our primal, reactionary brain if we choose. We can imagine our future together, and then work together to create it, one community, one business, one family at a time.
What would you like to see rise from the ashes of this meltdown? Please email what your vision of a new world could be. I would love for the readers of my Brain Tips to be the leaders of the blossoming New World.
Brain Tips Introduction
Some other related tips from the Brain Tip archive:
Brain Tip #42: Are We Cultivating a Culture of Cretans?
Synopsis
We need to first look at why we choose to be busy every moment and run from silence
Brain Tip #13: Getting Beyond Illusion
Synopsis
Choose your health and well-being over letting someone drain your nervous, hormonal and immune systems.
Brain Tip #3: Rid the Fear In Order To Hear
Synopsis
Self-awareness is the first step to outsmarting your brain. Know what your brain is doing. Then choose to act in your highest good.
Brain Tip #71: It's not reality; it's only your brain
Synopsis
The brain's primary job is to protect you. Therefore, most people tend to be pessimistic. They see the worst case scenario and conjure up all possibilities when the worst occurs (and the media loves to play into this drama).
In times of downturns, chaos and fear, what can you do to keep your head above water? Many people are doing quite well. I am having my most successful year ever. What can you do to rise above the muddy waters to stay in the light of possibility?
Brain Tip #72: Cure for Economic Woes
Synopsis
At the age of fifteen, my grandparents escaped Russia during the Bolshevik Revolution. Their crime: they were capitalists. They arrived penniless in Cleveland, Ohio and later moved to Phoenix, Arizona. In both cities they were embraced by their communities where they started their own businesses and raised a family of five boys. She experienced "compassionate capitalism." As our nation grew wealthier, we have become more selfish. Our culture consciousness is based on scarcity. It's time to bring community back into our consciousness. This is the way to rebuild a solid and sustainable economy.
